Yes, gay people can have stable romantic relationships. You may have many of the same relationship challenges as straight people have, but it . ECM sent me this post from The Public Discourse which explains a bit more about the two studies on gay parenting that were in the news last week. Some people are complaining that the study did not use enough long-term gay relationships. May 27, · How to Have a Gay or Lesbian Relationship. Entering into a gay relationship is much the same as entering into relationships are 82%().